I must say that this is my current favorite diaper out there, though I will admit I’ve only tried two brands. It is made of cloth-like material which doesn’t rip very easily. Yes, it goes on just like a baby diaper, it is no pull-up. The tabs are super-stretchy and refastenable, which is especially great when diapering yourself. They are also about four inches long from top to bottom, ensuring a secure fasten. They were very absorbant, I wet them three times with no leakage whatsoever. I would’ve tried for a fourth time but I ran out of time. They were just thick enough to create that wonderful waddle, though not as thick as the Bambinos, but they were definitely thick enough for me! There are two downsides I find with the Tena Ultra Stretch Brief. One is the lack of cuteness factor, as the size I use (L/XL) is just plain beige, though the M size ones are lavender. But that is easily rectified by buying a roll of diaper tape on ebay, I’ve seen them with Care Bears and Sesame Street on them. The other downside is that they aren’t crinkly and noisy like a baby diaper. The one fix to this I can think of is covering them with the plastic pants. But, all in all, I would give these diapers a 4 1/2 out of 5, from an ABDL perspective.